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– 12/04/2008
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eN-081204:
Walk A Mile In Your Boss’ Shoes!
By Tom Dennis – President, Effective Engineering
[tdennis@effectiveeng.com]
You’re at work and
your boss tells you of an action he must take. You listen and say to
yourself, “Why would he do that! This just makes no sense whatsoever!”
Your next reaction is to object or even “revolt” and to get the other folks
in your organization to join the “revolt” and take measures to overcome what
you consider to be the unreasonable actions your boss plans to initiate. You
give little thought as to why your boss is taking these actions. The fact
that there could be reasons such actions are being taken is not even
considered. It’s just wrong because it has a negative impact on you, and
after all, what could possibly be more important than you? It’s time to get
off of your self-centered high horse for a moment to try to take a look at
things from your boss’ perspective. It’s time to at least attempt to
walk a mile in your boss’ shoes!
My son works for a rental car company. During the day he works at
an auto insurance company, whose customers are using the rental company’s
cars, to expedite insurance claims by working with claims adjusters and auto
repair shops to help ensure repairs get done as quickly as possible. Some
evenings, for some extra money, he works overtime at the airport, helping
with auto rentals and returns. A short time ago his boss told him and
others in similar situations that due to the business slowdown he would have
to cut back on or possibly eliminate their overtime work at the airport.
Some of the employees were up in arms. How could management consider
cutting into their well deserved overtime? Doesn’t management understand
they need this overtime pay? Some said they should present demands to their
management to force them to keep their overtime hours. My son disagreed
with this approach, and asked me for my advice.
The downturn in business, primarily tied to the increase in gasoline prices
at that time, was very real. My son saw this directly in a large drop-off
in business on the insurance side of the business. The number of claims
being submitted had dropped significantly due to people driving less, car
pooling, and staying closer to home. It was being seen greatly in the
rental offices as well, as tourism and business travel was sharply down due
to people cutting back on vacations and business trips. Consequently the
company had to make adjustments to changing business conditions. One place
they could make such adjustments, without resorting to layoffs, was a
reduction or elimination of overtime. The employees who were objecting to
reductions or elimination of overtime could directly see the impacts on
them, but couldn’t see the big picture impact on the company. Because of
their self-centered viewpoint, they couldn’t put themselves in their boss’
shoes to understand the company position. They couldn’t recognize that
their bosses were actually doing them a favor by reducing their overtime
rather than eliminating their jobs entirely. My advice to my son was to
talk quietly with his boss to understand the big picture situation and the
pressure his boss was under to manage the situation, and to ask it there was
anything he could do to help. His boss let him know just how dire the
situation was becoming and that his actions were attempts to manage the
situation with minimal impact to his employees.
Attributing ill motives to a boss’ actions without proof is nonsensical and
ultimately self-destructive. You need to recognize that your boss’ success
is dependent upon the success of his people, including you. If your boss
takes negative actions on you and his other people without true cause, how
can that help him to succeed? Do you think he wants to fail? Think about
it! In the case of my son’s rental car company, less or no overtime,
despite the impact on each of the individuals, is far better than no job at
all for those individuals (see
eN-070802 – Bad Breath Is Better Than No Breath At All!). When
conditions improve, more overtime can again be authorized.
Such situations occur all of the time. Taking a self-centered view of
things, while that may be the natural initial inclination, is not useful to
you or your co-workers (see
eN-030227 – It’s Your Responsibility to Know Your Role in Implementing the
Vision and Roadmap). You need to talk with your boss calmly and
non-confrontationally to gain an understanding of the reasons behind these
actions (see
eN-070104 – “What We’ve Got Here Is A Failure To Communicate!).
For example, how many of the proposed actions are actually under the direct
control of your boss? If they are entirely under his control, then ask why
he chose these specific actions. Discuss the impacts of the planned actions
and the unintended consequences that he may not see, but which are likely to
result (see
eN-030102 – Poor Company Vision Clouds Everyone’s View, and
eN-071101 – Be Careful What You Wish For!). Discuss
alternatives to the actions he is suggesting to see if the alternatives can
accomplish the desired outcome without the disruptions you see from the
planned actions.
If the proposed actions are outside of your boss’ direct control, then you
need go beyond the specific proposed actions to learn the bigger picture
reasons why action of some kind is required, and what their root causes
are. Do these actions really address the root causes or just some of the
symptoms? Are the root causes directly tied to your organization, or are
there other organizations that may be more directly responsible and where
alternate actions can more effectively address and change the root cause of
the problems (see
eN-061207 – Stop Picking The Flysh!t Out Of The Pepper!). You
may not be able to change actions outside of your or your boss’ direct
control, but if your boss fully understands the root causes of the problems
and where actions can more effectively address them then he is in a far
better position to argue for actions being taken in the right place in the
company.
The result of such probing may be that other actions in other organizations
can be far more effective in addressing the root causes of problems, and
your organization may be spared impact. The result may be that alternate
actions within your organization but with less direct impact and better
results may occur. The result may be that the actions initially proposed
are exactly the right actions to be taken, but at least now you understand
the reasoning behind it, even if you don’t agree with it. The result may be
that your boss is fully responsible for the actions and simply doesn’t care
about your concerns (see
eN-040205 – Mis-Managers: How Bad Managers Can Poison The Well,
eN-071206 – You Reap What You Sow!, and
eN-080403 – No Good Deed Goes Unpunished!). The result may be
that your organization is not the cause of the problem, but the proposed
actions will still be done for political, organizational, or arbitrary
reasons (see
eN-050901 – Dysfunctional Families) and
eN-050407 – When It’s “Us” vs. “Them”, Nobody Wins!). Life is
not always fair. Still, by attempting to walk a mile in your boss’ shoes,
you can learn a lot, both good and bad (see
eN-030605 – Learn from Good Role Models; Learn More from Bad!).
Take your lessons wherever you find them!
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